Confession
The
gift of God’s forgiveness is received through private prayer, corporate
worship, the disciplines of prayer and fasting, penitential services and
above all through the sacrament of Holy Confession. Pray and think your
confession over several days. Ask God to help you perceive your sins and
to make a thorough confession of them. Now, without justification or self-pity,
make a prayerful examination of your conscience regarding all things. As
a help, reflect on your life in the light of the Ten Commandments and the
Beatitudes. Take pencil and paper and specify your sins so that, at the
time of the sacrament, you will be able to make a thorough confession from
the list, without confusion or lapse of memory.
THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
1. I am the Lord your God, and you
shall have no other gods before me.
Has God been the source, center and hope of my life? Have I put myself,
others or things before God? Have I failed to trust in God’s existence,
love and mercy? Have I failed to pray to God, to worship Him and to thank
Him for His blessings? Have I tried to serve God and keep His commandments
faithfully? Have I murmured or complained against God in adversity? Have
I praised and glorified God through my words and deeds?
2. You shall not make for yourself
a graven image in order to worship it.
Have I valued anyone or anything above God? Have I given to anyone or anything
the love, honor and worship that belongs to God alone? Have I made an idol
of any person, idea, occupation, or thing?
3. You shall not take the name of
the Lord your God in vain.
Have I blasphemed God’s holy name in any way? Have I sworn a false
oath? Have I broken any solemn vow or promise? Have I entered into an agreement,
promise or contract against God’s law? Have I cursed or used foul
language?
4. Remember the Sabbath day to keep
it holy.
Have I worshiped regularly on Sundays and major feast days and have I helped
others to do the same? Have I worked unnecessarily on Sundays or major feast
days or caused others to do so? Have I spent the Lord’s Day in a wholesome
and edifying way?
5. Honor your father and mother.
Have I loved and respected my parent s as I should? Have I neglected them
or failed to help them? Have I disobeyed them, deceived them or caused them
pain by my words or deeds? Have I treated all my family members with patience
and love?
6. Thou shall not kill.
Have I caused the harm, injury or death of anyone? Have I wished my own
or anyone’s harm or death? Have I been cruel to animals or destroyed
any life unnecessarily?
7. You shall not commit adultery.
Have I committed any immoral acts alone or with others? Have I caused others
to commit immoral acts? Have I committed immoral acts in my heart?
8. You shall not steal.
Have I taken anything that was not mine from anyone or from anywhere? Have
I cheated anyone? Have I caused others to steal or cheat? Have I tried to
find the owners of lost things I have found? Have I damaged or destroyed
anything that belonged to another? Have I defrauded anyone of rightful wages?
Have I paid my debts? Have I given to the poor and to philanthropic causes
in proportion to my means?
9. You shall not bear false witness.
Have I given false testimony against anyone? Have I spoken evil, told lies
or spread rumors about anyone? Have I disclosed to anyone the sins and faults
of another? Have I made careless statements or done anything else to harm
the name and reputation of another? Have I engaged in idle gossip?
10. You shall not covet.
Have I looked with envy jealousy or hatred toward the possession talents
or achievements of others? Have I desired, with evil intent, the downfall
or loss of others, so that I might benefit? Have I grieved that God has
bestowed greater blessings on others than on me?
THE BEATITUDES
1. Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom
of heaven.
Have I truly recognized my complete dependence on God? Have I been proud,
arrogant and self-righteous in my ways? Have I been selfish, possessive
and self-seeking? Have I sought after status power and wealth?
2. Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Have I endured difficulties and afflictions with faith and patience? Have
I felt sadness for the sufferings of the poor, the hungry, and addicted;
the sick, the lonely and the sinful of the world? Have I truly been sorrowful
for my sins and faults?
3. Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Have I tried to serve or rather to dominate others at home, school, work,
office, Church and elsewhere? Have I cursed against anyone? Have I been
resentful, bitter, unforgiving or insulting and abusive to others? Have
I loved my enemies?
4. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they shall be satisfied.
Have I truly yearned for God’s will to be done in all things? Have
I worked for justice in my family, society and the world in ways within
my reach? Have I tried to cultivate a righteous life through prayer, fasting,
worship, receiving Holy Communion and deeds of love toward others?
5. Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.
Have I shown compassion and help toward the poor, hungry, lonely and needy
around me? Have I tried to understand and forgive others? Have I been indifferent,
judgmental or legalistic?
6. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Have I loved goodness, purity and holiness? Have I succumbed to evil motives
and intentions? Have I given way to impure thoughts, words or deeds? Have
I been guilty of bias and prejudice? Have I been hypocritical, pretentious
or self-indulgent to sinful passions?
7. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons
of God.
Do I have God’s peace in my heart? Have I been unfairly angry, aggressive
or impatient? Have I worked for peace at home, work, Church and in society?
Have I been irritable, polemical, or divisive?
8. Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness sake,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Have I complained when persecuted for God’s sake? Have I prayed for
my persecutors? Have I failed to defend anyone in the truth for fear of
humiliation or persecution? Have I had the courage to stand up for what
is right despite criticism, ridicule or persecution?
9. Blessed are you when they revile you and persecute you on
my account; rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven.
Is the joy of Christ in my heart even in trying moments? Have I been pessimistic
despondent or despairing? Have I truly delighted in the promise of God’s
treasures in heaven?
[From “My Orthodox Prayer Book”]
You may contact Fr. Rick to schedule an appointment for the Sacrament of Confession.